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Post by lizpurlo on Jan 2, 2014 15:39:14 GMT 1
If you want to drive him away, then start quizzing him about your suspicions, and keep on and on at him. OTOH, if you want to keep him, then just keep on loving him, and appreciate him when he looks out for you and takes you out. It's a lot like horses really, reward the good behaviour......
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 2, 2014 17:29:16 GMT 1
If you want to drive him away, then start quizzing him about your suspicions, and keep on and on at him. OTOH, if you want to keep him, then just keep on loving him, and appreciate him when he looks out for you and takes you out. It's a lot like horses really, reward the good behaviour...... thats what i did to my OH luckily hes still here 3 and half years later but he must be a saint so hard when everyone in your life has let you down to not be suspicious but it does get better if you let go
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Post by julz on Jan 2, 2014 21:54:00 GMT 1
Troop, i really hope it's nothing .... and that you can just let it go, and that it is you he worships....
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Post by mollichop on Jan 2, 2014 23:40:34 GMT 1
(((big hugs))) Troop, hope that this storm soon passes for you and you have some plain sailing ahead of you
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 3, 2014 16:42:26 GMT 1
hope your ok troop xxxxx
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Post by troop on Jan 3, 2014 17:28:31 GMT 1
Had melt down but am otherwise tearful but ok im still fighting on im making dr appointment for next week as something not right xxx Thanks for the support guys i really do appreciate it.
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Post by happysnail on Jan 3, 2014 17:29:53 GMT 1
Hugs Troop, take care of yourself xxx
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 3, 2014 18:35:04 GMT 1
sending xxx
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 3, 2014 18:35:25 GMT 1
you will get there xx
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Post by gwenoakes on Jan 7, 2014 8:59:53 GMT 1
Just wondered how your diddling, Troop. Hope you are getting there. XXXXX
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Post by troop on Jan 7, 2014 11:32:33 GMT 1
Hi im ok i have evened out again now. I had a lady message me about coming for a few lessons. I asked a little about the place and i applied for a job there a few months back they kept my name and i guess been keeping eye on my fb profile. The lady said i have a lot of the same principles that they run by so im going to go for a lesson on one of her stallions . Atleast i get to ride a nice new horse should be fun. The OH has seemingly been very attentive so far this year i do feel bad though as i now have a bug a cold and on top of that i woke up this morning with a searing pain in my leg and can barely walk so im sat on sofa doing nothing when i would like to be cleaning house. I have possibly gained a livery for the future she seems very interested but all depends on what happens at work. I could easily the turnout sadly. It sucks in that respect but there is nothing i can do about that.
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 7, 2014 18:16:56 GMT 1
sounding more positive xx keep smiling troop xx
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Post by happysnail on Jan 7, 2014 20:46:46 GMT 1
Enjoy the ride. Glad to hear you're feeling a bit more settled. x
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Post by Hannah on Jan 7, 2014 20:59:01 GMT 1
Glad things are looking better
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 7, 2014 21:51:04 GMT 1
xx
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