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Post by rosemaryhannah on Dec 30, 2013 21:04:45 GMT 1
Well then - RA?
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Post by troop on Dec 30, 2013 21:14:36 GMT 1
would like that i think
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Post by ladyndibs on Dec 30, 2013 21:18:48 GMT 1
A very good friend says that if we were all looked at properly we'd probably all figure somewhere on the autism spectrum as it is so broad.
My grandson age 7 was assessed earlier in the year and it was confirmed he is autistic, something we knew from quite an early age.
It hasn't made any differance to him personally but his teachers finally realise that he's not just being naughty when he doesn't do exactly the same as others in his class and there has been some very practical help available too. His behaviour traits are very similar to some of those within the aspergers range but this hasn't been confirmed.
With the numbers of children that have this condition logically I would think there are thousands of adults that have it too but were never assessed as the techniques weren't really understood or recognised.
If there is a posibility you have some form of autism it may help you understand better some of the things you are going through and possibly better ways to deal with them.
Not the same I know but my grandson's handwritting was always poor, once they confirmed he was autistic he was given a special pencil, much fatter than normal and hey presto his writting improved almost overnight. He finds it almost impossible to sit still so he now has a sticker on his chair that he has to try and cover with his bottom, this helped too. I know these are child related examples but there could be help aimed at adults out there, it's just a case of finding it.
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Post by rosemaryhannah on Dec 30, 2013 21:18:52 GMT 1
Well, looking into the possibility could do no harm at all, could it? If you cannot/it is not for you, well, are you any worse off?
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Post by troop on Dec 30, 2013 21:33:31 GMT 1
haha this sounds stupid but i have fat pens i cant wrire with thin pens but i struggle with knives and forks to unless they have fatter handles and i like spoons that are smaller spoon wise. Should start a thread on little oddities we all have.
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Post by troop on Dec 30, 2013 21:35:24 GMT 1
Its more getting the funds to complete a course i struggled and am still paying for doing the ee level 1
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Post by julz on Dec 31, 2013 0:46:41 GMT 1
this might sound weird... but im watching a programme called My Phone Sex Secrets.. about everyday women who are paid to talk dirty to men.... while they go about their daily tasks.. walking dogs, shopping, doing paper work... I realise it's not for everyone... don't know if I could do it.. but apparently it pays well... just a thought.... might even look into it..
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Post by troop on Dec 31, 2013 11:59:47 GMT 1
LOL Julz i watched that the first time it was on and i did start to look into it but OH wasnt too keen which is fair enough although i dont think he would stop me.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2013 17:06:32 GMT 1
Well I do know someone who does this and she's a 'well known name on the arab show circuit' she's raking in squillions now has about 70 women working for her, and if it pays for the horses and a few treats, some women only do it when children and men are out of the house, all have mobile phones , which she supplies, pay as you go jobs, sim cards get changed regularly as well, all on premium rate calls charges, women keep 90% of the call costs they pay her 10% like you said not to everyones taste, but a nice little earner sometimes. She freely admits its not for everyone and a high percentage of her callers only want to talk, not always about sex but about lots of things, sometimes you are the only contact they have . Theres also agencies that let you operate from your own landline, this is never revealed but they are given a desinated premium rate number as their own and you log on and off like an office job, if you have Tarot card experience there are a nuber of reputable companies out there who are alway seeking readers, and its a very generalised reading you give people anyway nothing specific at all..........most of the calls are from people who need some form of reassurance...........I know its not for everyone but the money can be quite a good deal, some of the girls are earning over £300 a week from doing the very minimum of 20 hours a week, one of the girls who does this pays her daughters private school fees from her earnings, paid into her bank account ans she is responsible for her own tax and NI as well............theres phone lines just for peple who want a friendly voice to speak to its not all dirty men in mucky macs
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 2, 2014 13:01:43 GMT 1
this might sound weird... but im watching a programme called My Phone Sex Secrets.. about everyday women who are paid to talk dirty to men.... while they go about their daily tasks.. walking dogs, shopping, doing paper work... I realise it's not for everyone... don't know if I could do it.. but apparently it pays well... just a thought.... might even look into it.. hehe to be honest ive considered this!!!  ROFL |
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 2, 2014 13:04:37 GMT 1
sending HUGE hugs xxx have you confronted OH since posting?
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Post by troop on Jan 2, 2014 13:26:37 GMT 1
I havent but im thinking im just going to keep an eye on him and see what comes of it. I have no proof as such and he isnt acting oddly (or more than usual) he has noticed im not on form and without prompting ha tried to help so i cant complain in that respect. I am convinced that this is something to do with his ex wifes sister although i cannot be sure. I had a conversation with an aquaintance yesterday in pub (OH took me out with dogs on walk on beach then for a pint) her husband and her had tried quitting fags and she tried some tablet course but apparently turned bit mental and very paranoid accusing her hubby (who is lovely) of all sorts they got together in a similar way to me and my OH but she is not a paranoid sort and said her hormones went nuts so perhaps i do need to try and get mine under control i must admit im better than i was as if i had found this years ago i would have gone nuts straight away wheras i am trying to be a little more rational and thinking about it. I may well talk to OH about it but i just need to figure it out in my own head first. She also said that i shouldnt have any worries as im a lovely kind pretty girl and i know that this lady will tell me outright if she suspected anything at all. I have calmed down somewhat now i think Christmas stress along with everything else just got too much for me. Work is really hard at minute and i am really worried incase OH has been taking the mick its not a nice place to be in my head right now. My best mate thinks i am being daft but will support me whatever i decide to do. I just wish i knew what that was.
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 2, 2014 13:59:56 GMT 1
do you know what you sound so similar to me lol  xx |
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Post by portiabuzz on Jan 2, 2014 14:00:11 GMT 1
i have to rememeber to think first lol!
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Post by troop on Jan 2, 2014 14:01:09 GMT 1
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