Post by Lydia00 on Dec 8, 2011 23:48:48 GMT 1
The subject of this post actually sounds quite depressing but this is how I have felt tonight and have cried every time i've looked at him!
I've posted on here before about my 9 year old Welsh gelding and the problems he has, it now seems I am finding him a new home. Not because of his/my issues with riding but because my circumstances have or are soon to completely change and I need to be as flexible as possible.
To cut a long story short i'm 21 and am lucky enough to still live with my parents. I'm in a job that I am happy enough with but is commission based so money is never a gaurantee. Unfortunately my dad was diagnosed with severe heart disease last year and had his 3rd heart attack resulting in a quadruple bypass. He is only 50 and cannot find any form of employment now he has recovered. My mum too has health issues. Financially they cant keep our house and they have taken the hard decision of selling up and to move. I still haven't decided what I will do but I know I will not be going with them.
I find it quite depressing when I think about how I am going to build my future. I have minimal savings and my boyfriend has all his money in assets which he's bought to try and set up his electrical business which unfortunately he doesn't enjoy all that much
I've always promised myself that before I settle down with a house I would like to travel, not necessarily for long but to just see what's out there and then hopefully I would find guidance in where I want to live and what I want to do for a living (still have no idea). My Auntie lives in Australia so I've applied and been accepted for an Australian Working Visa, my boyfriend wants to do the same. This just means we can stay there for up to 12 months whilst having a job.
Another long story short my pony has deep issues with being ridden. I've only had him 14months and haven't ridden him for most of that! He was picked up at the auctions by one of his past owners and from then on just got passed around. I was lied to when he was sold to me as he has sweet itch and these mentioned issues but I never wanted to sell him on and despite him being a very expensive pet this is what he would have been!
Now my circumstances have changed and I am so scared! I don't want him to get passed on again and I just want him to have a home for life. I feel guilty and selfish and the only comfort I get is my belief or hope that everything happens for a reason and maybe me buying him in the first place saved him from landing in the wrong hands?
At weekend I put an advert on the internet for permanent loan or sale and was completely honest about him, his sweet itch and his issues. I said that he was non-rideable. I've had interest despite this and yet I don't know how to trust them? These people want to come and see him and yet I feel like I cant let go or that it's too soon? I feel I could keep him longer but genuinely thought I wouldn't get any replies!
I guess I just feel a little overwhelmed at the moment. Times are tough with my parents and I feel a little angry at the world and upset that they'll be moving far away. Maybe I could keep my little man but then I would never get to travel and would be under pressure in a job I don't love just to pay all my bills?
Sorry to whinge but I dont like talking to my mum and dad because their situation upsets me and I don't like talking to my boyfriend because he loves my horse as much as I do and is equally heartbroken! Thanks for reading, any tips for finding him the perfect home or advice is very welcome. If I had have known 18 months ago that I would be needing my own place to live at 21 I would have never thought of buying another horse. How i've taken it for granted that I still live at home!
I've posted on here before about my 9 year old Welsh gelding and the problems he has, it now seems I am finding him a new home. Not because of his/my issues with riding but because my circumstances have or are soon to completely change and I need to be as flexible as possible.
To cut a long story short i'm 21 and am lucky enough to still live with my parents. I'm in a job that I am happy enough with but is commission based so money is never a gaurantee. Unfortunately my dad was diagnosed with severe heart disease last year and had his 3rd heart attack resulting in a quadruple bypass. He is only 50 and cannot find any form of employment now he has recovered. My mum too has health issues. Financially they cant keep our house and they have taken the hard decision of selling up and to move. I still haven't decided what I will do but I know I will not be going with them.
I find it quite depressing when I think about how I am going to build my future. I have minimal savings and my boyfriend has all his money in assets which he's bought to try and set up his electrical business which unfortunately he doesn't enjoy all that much
I've always promised myself that before I settle down with a house I would like to travel, not necessarily for long but to just see what's out there and then hopefully I would find guidance in where I want to live and what I want to do for a living (still have no idea). My Auntie lives in Australia so I've applied and been accepted for an Australian Working Visa, my boyfriend wants to do the same. This just means we can stay there for up to 12 months whilst having a job.
Another long story short my pony has deep issues with being ridden. I've only had him 14months and haven't ridden him for most of that! He was picked up at the auctions by one of his past owners and from then on just got passed around. I was lied to when he was sold to me as he has sweet itch and these mentioned issues but I never wanted to sell him on and despite him being a very expensive pet this is what he would have been!
Now my circumstances have changed and I am so scared! I don't want him to get passed on again and I just want him to have a home for life. I feel guilty and selfish and the only comfort I get is my belief or hope that everything happens for a reason and maybe me buying him in the first place saved him from landing in the wrong hands?
At weekend I put an advert on the internet for permanent loan or sale and was completely honest about him, his sweet itch and his issues. I said that he was non-rideable. I've had interest despite this and yet I don't know how to trust them? These people want to come and see him and yet I feel like I cant let go or that it's too soon? I feel I could keep him longer but genuinely thought I wouldn't get any replies!
I guess I just feel a little overwhelmed at the moment. Times are tough with my parents and I feel a little angry at the world and upset that they'll be moving far away. Maybe I could keep my little man but then I would never get to travel and would be under pressure in a job I don't love just to pay all my bills?
Sorry to whinge but I dont like talking to my mum and dad because their situation upsets me and I don't like talking to my boyfriend because he loves my horse as much as I do and is equally heartbroken! Thanks for reading, any tips for finding him the perfect home or advice is very welcome. If I had have known 18 months ago that I would be needing my own place to live at 21 I would have never thought of buying another horse. How i've taken it for granted that I still live at home!