Need a moan and a shout!!! READ PLEASE.

[melissa1787]

I need a moan, big moan and a let of steam.

I used to ride with a women who seemed nice but is calling me names now.

It all started ok.

One year ago I met this women on a yard when looking after another nice womens daughters horse for them whilst they went away for a few days.
I was not riding this horse but a great thing for me to get to be able to look after a horse for a few days. Yay! :)

Then the other women on yard (only one) seemed lovely and we started to chat.
I helped her out with her ponies and even though she would have had me ride them they were too little for me and so could'nt. She then got me introduced to a 14.3h cob that a friend of hers rode for someone. I rode her a few times and so it became set that with owners permission I carried on riding this cob (Daisy) and became to love this horse as if my own. Still Ride her and love her too bits.
I shared the riding with other women and got on fine.

We then went to a show one day in the summer just gone and she went back with Daisy's daddy and I with other women (friend) in her car. Anyway ever since that day Daisy's daddy stopped other women from riding Daisy and told me that she was pushing her too much and something about her letting tom,dick and harry ride her without his knowledge. That is all I know to this day.

Anyway I carried on riding Daisy with other women (the one in question that I am not seeming to get along with anymore) and Daisy's daddy did not mind this so long as he did not have contact with her as he said "I do not like her or trust her" That is all I know.
Good news is I still ride Daisy and help look after her.
Her daddy and I seem to get on ok. :)

Now one day, Women I was riding with, got rather nasty.
Accusing me of stopping other women from riding Daisy, by telling Daisy's daddy tales about her. What tales, unsure.
How would I know, I do not know what I was supposed to have done anyway? ???

So it goes on... I then after about 1 week made up with women and agreed to ride with her again.
Went out once with her and everything was fine. :)
The it went wrong again. :o
What now? Well this time I am a tell tale tit, Bitch, Lieing toe rag etc.. What for, dunno. "You never ride with me?" "You don't want to" :( Been riding with her for 8 months- about.
The previous few weeks had nearly rained none stop. You know what this past summer was like, hurendous.
What I am I God! MAKE IT FINE!
So it is... NOT!
That is how I feel.

Weeks now go by, nothing in communication from her or me.
Then voicemail... "Come on what is all this about?" :o
What about?
It goes on and on and on.
I decided not to communicate as she was calling me names so all went dead/quiet. ::) Relieve.

Problem... still sort of quiet, untill I bump into her on hacks.
Dam! I cannot not go out or I am avoiding people.
In all this time, we have moved yards over the road (Great) got better saddle and started to school Daisy.
So am I avoiding her?

I then was out today and on my way back after one funny, fast, not expected ride bumped into her. SOOOOOOO! "You said you'd ride with me?" ??? "Are you lieing?!" ??? Now what have I done.
Not "Did you have a nice christmas?" "Oh, yes thanks, you?" OH no, just "You are a lier then?"

Thanks for all that, sorry to be a bore to you all.
Question... What do I do? And Why do I seem to make myself vulnerable? Is it me?

Also there is nowhere else I can ride out as whereever I go I could see her.

Mad, upset :'( and more :'( and more :'( HELP!

Melissa1787

[iammizz]

erm she sounds mentally unstable KEEP AWAY !!!
No really just ignore her x

[horsey123]

you know what to say to her starts with an F and ends in OFF

[Cheryl Walmsley]

I think she might be crazy, just ignore people like that.

[Vicky&Beenie]

haha horsey123
she sounds mental, i think she needs help just ignore her and carry on with your life. whats the worse she can do? she is just mad!

[kya]

Put a wall around yourself and studiously ignore her. She'a a screaming pit of need. I'd run a mile!

[melissa1787]

Thankyou, I'll just ignoor her.

[mellymoo]

She sounds crackers. Be polite if she says hello, but anything beyond that tell her that you will not be abused in that way and that she should see someone about her sociopathic tendencies. Hopefully she will get the message and leave you alone. If she doesn't speak to you, then don't bother speaking to her.

[swallowsmum]

there are some lovely people with horses...........there are also some complete and utter barking frootloops too. i guess you've realised which catagory she fits into!!

breathe........and thank the lord that you are one of the normal ones!!!!!

[Teeni]

If you see her just smile, say good day and then be on your way.

At least your being the bigger person as you have not done a thing wrong and she can't then moan that your not talking to her.

Don't take what she says to heart though, chin up and carry on as normal.

x

[gingitsu]

oo-er what a bit of a funny one. i see why u wouldnt want to upset her more as ppl like that are just too much if u get on the wrong side of them me thinks. i would say arrange a ride with her every once in a while just to keep her happy and try and clear the air.