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Post by blue on Sept 4, 2005 23:05:51 GMT 1
anon for this but very much a regular and need someone to talk to.
Just had oh hit me in face(needless to say he is dumped)and now have nice swollen nose and nose bleed hope noone minds but just felt like some sympathy
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Lucymj
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Post by Lucymj on Sept 4, 2005 23:09:58 GMT 1
Oh poor you. Get rid and please please stick to it. It took my ex back and put up with this for 4 years. Dont make the same mistake. Tell someone 'real' in your life about this too so they remind you of it if you ever look like taking him back. It is the only advice i can offer.
Big hugs and lots of love. Eat lots of chocolate too xxx
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Post by gwenoakes on Sept 4, 2005 23:11:57 GMT 1
Oh op how awful. Of course we dont mind on here you telling us and you do really deserve sympathy buckets full of it. There is absolutely no way you should have to have put up with that. Totally out of order. Very pleased to hear you have dumped him. Do you think he may have broken your nose? If I were you would go and get it checked out at local hospital if not before at least tomorrow. Do hope you are not on your own. Thinking of you X
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blue
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Post by blue on Sept 4, 2005 23:12:57 GMT 1
Thank you lucy and your right thats a good way to stop your self going back, i even thought about putting my name up here to make it harder to go back but wasnt brave enough.
Think they will know at work though luckily i have live in job so no problem walking away,
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Post by blue on Sept 4, 2005 23:18:32 GMT 1
How do you tell if you have broken your nose, its swollen on one side but think its ok will see in morning
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Lucymj
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Post by Lucymj on Sept 4, 2005 23:22:50 GMT 1
Im sorry but i dont know how to check op.............. Hope its okay though. As stupidas it sounds you are lucky he hit you in the face in many ways - it means there is no pretending it didnt happen. Blessing in disguise eh? You are so much better off now without this animal in your life.
Take care of yourself - a brandy perhaps to dull it so you get a decent nights sleep?! xxx
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Post by mags on Sept 4, 2005 23:29:29 GMT 1
taken a deep breath and posted under my name, thought about What you said lucy and I know unless everyone knows I will end u taking him back
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Lucymj
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Post by Lucymj on Sept 4, 2005 23:31:54 GMT 1
Big hug Mags xxx
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Post by gwenoakes on Sept 4, 2005 23:32:50 GMT 1
Well done Mags. Dont honestly know how you know if nose is broken, think only a doctor could tell you that. If you go to doctors or hospital then it would be on record should you need proof of what happened to you or have probs in the future with this animal. Look after yourself please and take care X
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Post by mags on Sept 5, 2005 0:18:44 GMT 1
Cheers guys
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Post by gwenoakes on Sept 5, 2005 0:36:19 GMT 1
Mags just noticed your in Lincolnshire - anywhere near Grantham?
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Post by mags on Sept 5, 2005 0:45:54 GMT 1
Not that far Im at hykeham(well newark at mo but hykeham from tomorrow)
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Post by gwenoakes on Sept 5, 2005 0:46:29 GMT 1
Thats Lincoln way isnt it?
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Post by mags on Sept 5, 2005 0:50:20 GMT 1
yep just outside ;D
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Post by gwenoakes on Sept 5, 2005 0:54:51 GMT 1
Are you starting a new job then or just moving tomorrow? Tell me to mind my own business if you like, just nosey lol
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