Post by jsb on Jun 18, 2016 8:38:24 GMT 1
Our horse who we have had for nearly 3 months, has started biting. I was so surprised he did that the other day when grooming it took me second or two to realise what had happened. I knew in my gut I had to respond quickly or not at all. I felt he needed to know that was totally not acceptable behaviour, so I slapped him ( just on the shoulder) not on the face, and took his headcoller in both hands just firmly - not shaking at all - and said in a firm voice " NO that was really naughty!" then stepped back… I have since read a host of other things and am not sure if that was backwards move with him? I feel he needed to know that was naughty.. I know MOnty suggests lightly tapping/ knocking his boot on the shin to divert attention… the good old pony club way is probably shout and do something like a spank….
anyway - we do not want this to become more of a problem. What do you do when this happens and does it work?
Getting our dually halter today so that will help.
He is a bit lonesome in his field - there is a pony next door who hides around the other hedge and is not a sociable chap he can see other horses across from him but not able to chat with them)
our horse seems to be really sensitive to being brushed suddenly ( which is so not him!) and he is grumpy.. the only other time he was like that was when he had no field mate and was not getting much sleep - so I am thinking this other field mate in next door field isn't actually helping much - could he also be teaching mine grumpy habits as he isn't a nice horse to be around? It could be medical I suppose? but I also wonder if he is not actually just trying it on. My husband who is not horsey at all got him in from the field yesterday as I didn't have my boots with me, and he also walked him a mile or so up the road and he was absolute angel with head nice and low and his happy eyes on! So this makes me wonder - he liked husbands way of doing things…
He is ridden most days ( solved the napping that he was doing when the other pony arrived) ours is 15.1 Irish 12yr , ex driving pony and 3 month trekker - so he has been learning a whole new way of life - and doing very well… so I am confused/ concerned about his mood changes and what we need to do with this to be safe AND happy! I want my happy horse back please!
thanks in advance for any ideas!
Joy
anyway - we do not want this to become more of a problem. What do you do when this happens and does it work?
Getting our dually halter today so that will help.
He is a bit lonesome in his field - there is a pony next door who hides around the other hedge and is not a sociable chap he can see other horses across from him but not able to chat with them)
our horse seems to be really sensitive to being brushed suddenly ( which is so not him!) and he is grumpy.. the only other time he was like that was when he had no field mate and was not getting much sleep - so I am thinking this other field mate in next door field isn't actually helping much - could he also be teaching mine grumpy habits as he isn't a nice horse to be around? It could be medical I suppose? but I also wonder if he is not actually just trying it on. My husband who is not horsey at all got him in from the field yesterday as I didn't have my boots with me, and he also walked him a mile or so up the road and he was absolute angel with head nice and low and his happy eyes on! So this makes me wonder - he liked husbands way of doing things…
He is ridden most days ( solved the napping that he was doing when the other pony arrived) ours is 15.1 Irish 12yr , ex driving pony and 3 month trekker - so he has been learning a whole new way of life - and doing very well… so I am confused/ concerned about his mood changes and what we need to do with this to be safe AND happy! I want my happy horse back please!
thanks in advance for any ideas!
Joy