Post by jennyw on Nov 25, 2012 23:33:04 GMT 1
Hello, I'm new here.
I'm embarassed to relate the following but this is where I am at and I really would appreciate some advice going forward if possible
My background: I had ponies as a child up to my early twenties we bred from a couple and as the only horsey family member I 'raised' the foals until they were sold at 3-4 years old, I dont remember having many set backs and both were well mannered youngsters when they left us
Fast forward fifteen or so years...
I've bought two colts, both hill ponies of 18 months old. one is fine no problems there, he is a pleasure to deal with
I've struggled with the other. He arrived in August. his old owners had done a lot of ground work with him, he had been walked out in hand around the village and he behaved well when I went to see him.
On the day he arrived I groomed him and turned him out. He was calm and easy to lead, over the next few days I caught him and tied him to the fence in his field and groomed him, all ok.
Then a group of friends visited and one tried to take him to the stable to be groomed and he tanked off through the electric fence (I wasnt there at the time and have no idea if there was a trigger that made him go) the next day he did the same with me when I clipped his leadrope on
since that day he has not been able to be led at all, he is terribly jumpy and just pulls back and runs off. I have a rope halter and understand the pressure/release idea but dont stand a chance of getting it on him but he is still wearing the headcollar he had on when he arrived
Over time I have managed to be able to touch him all over, adjust his headcollar and pick out his feet while he is eating (distraction) But if I try to take hold of his headcollar and move him or clip a leadrope on he panics and pulls back. I always wear gloves and hat when I am with him
I thought of using a long lead rope or lunge rein to give him a chance to move away but not get out of control but worry that if he gets away he will do himself a serious injury with the rope
He eats a handful of plain chaff, a vit supplement and a little magnesium powder (in an effort to calm him!)
Selling him isnt really an option as colts are ten a penny and he is effectively worthless and I'd like to try and push through the problem without passing it on as I feel like I have failed him
I'm not sure where to go from here. Every day he is trusting me more it seems so should I just keep at it softly softly?
Part of me also thinks he is just taking advantage of me
His hooves are going to need to be trimmed soon but unless there is a dramatic turnaround I dont see how this is going to be possible!
I know these colts were not an ideal purchase, I have already beaten myself up on that count but if any one has any tips of how to progress I would be interested to hear them. thank you for reading.
I'm embarassed to relate the following but this is where I am at and I really would appreciate some advice going forward if possible
My background: I had ponies as a child up to my early twenties we bred from a couple and as the only horsey family member I 'raised' the foals until they were sold at 3-4 years old, I dont remember having many set backs and both were well mannered youngsters when they left us
Fast forward fifteen or so years...
I've bought two colts, both hill ponies of 18 months old. one is fine no problems there, he is a pleasure to deal with
I've struggled with the other. He arrived in August. his old owners had done a lot of ground work with him, he had been walked out in hand around the village and he behaved well when I went to see him.
On the day he arrived I groomed him and turned him out. He was calm and easy to lead, over the next few days I caught him and tied him to the fence in his field and groomed him, all ok.
Then a group of friends visited and one tried to take him to the stable to be groomed and he tanked off through the electric fence (I wasnt there at the time and have no idea if there was a trigger that made him go) the next day he did the same with me when I clipped his leadrope on
since that day he has not been able to be led at all, he is terribly jumpy and just pulls back and runs off. I have a rope halter and understand the pressure/release idea but dont stand a chance of getting it on him but he is still wearing the headcollar he had on when he arrived
Over time I have managed to be able to touch him all over, adjust his headcollar and pick out his feet while he is eating (distraction) But if I try to take hold of his headcollar and move him or clip a leadrope on he panics and pulls back. I always wear gloves and hat when I am with him
I thought of using a long lead rope or lunge rein to give him a chance to move away but not get out of control but worry that if he gets away he will do himself a serious injury with the rope
He eats a handful of plain chaff, a vit supplement and a little magnesium powder (in an effort to calm him!)
Selling him isnt really an option as colts are ten a penny and he is effectively worthless and I'd like to try and push through the problem without passing it on as I feel like I have failed him
I'm not sure where to go from here. Every day he is trusting me more it seems so should I just keep at it softly softly?
Part of me also thinks he is just taking advantage of me
His hooves are going to need to be trimmed soon but unless there is a dramatic turnaround I dont see how this is going to be possible!
I know these colts were not an ideal purchase, I have already beaten myself up on that count but if any one has any tips of how to progress I would be interested to hear them. thank you for reading.