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Post by wiggywompus on Nov 25, 2012 17:51:58 GMT 1
 I bought my first pony in October after many years of riding lessons and have learnt how much I do not know!! I am now terrified of doing anything with my lovely pony after being bit (badly bruised boob) and pushed aside (bruised elbow and arm) . My fault because I did not know what I was doing or the signs that these things were about to happen! Having gone through the she has to go I can't do it, I will ruin her for anyone else, I will end up seriously injured; today I have started on the road to success!! Three hour bath reading How to be the owner your horse wants. I am starting again. Will book lesson on stable management to include bringing in and turning out, lunging to build up my on the ground confidence on Wednesday. Friend has IH course behind her and she is going to take on pony for 6 months bring her on. During this time I will have lesson twice week one ground work one riding and learn as much as I can and build up my confidence. She is a lovely pony and deserves the best. All support and tips will be greatly appreciated.
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Post by fth on Nov 27, 2012 7:21:41 GMT 1
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Post by bonniesmum on Nov 27, 2012 8:30:58 GMT 1
Ouch re the boob!
It sounds like you have a plan and a good one at that. I would recommend reading perfect manners and, if you have the time and budget, have a think about going on the five day foundation course. I haven't done it yet due to time and financial constraints but it's on my 'to do' list.
My pony is the first I've owned and I find the support given by her being on part livery on a good livery yard is invaluable. There was a lot I knew due to years of looking after horses but a lot I didn't and still don't. Realising how much you need to learn is the first step in becoming a great horsewoman. A lot of people who have had horses for years would do well to realise they are still learning ;-)
I want to wish you well on your journey and you can always get support and virtual hugs here. We respect people who are big enough to ask for help and do not judge those who do :-)
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Post by ruthp on Nov 29, 2012 15:32:16 GMT 1
I'd strongly recommend that you book yourself on a Perfect Partners weekend course with Kelly. You'll learn so much about handling, equine body language and human body posture that will really help you build a relationship with your pony. And if you are able to, you can take the pony with you, and do a join up with her under Kelly's supervision. Invaluable.
And by the way - well done! It's not easy for us humans to admit when we've bitten off a bit more than we can chew.
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Post by curlytobiano on Nov 30, 2012 18:12:11 GMT 1
Yes well done Wiggy (great name!) good for you for getting some help and starting out along the IH way - you won't regret it. I would also recommend getting an RA out if you have one nearby and the funds (they are AMAZINGLY good value!) as this will do absolute wonders for your skill and confidence on the ground.
Good luck! Keep us posted! And pictures are compulsory ;D
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Post by dalesfan on Dec 3, 2012 13:35:27 GMT 1
Keep us posted  and agreeing with the great suggestions above re RAs and the IH courses, you'll be amazed at what a difference it can make. |
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I bought my first pony in October after many years of riding lessons and have learnt how much I do not know!! I am now terrified of doing anything with my lovely pony after being bit (badly bruised boob) and pushed aside (bruised elbow and arm) . My fault because I did not know what I was doing or the signs that these things were about to happen! Having gone through the she has to go I can't do it, I will ruin her for anyone else, I will end up seriously injured; today I have started on the road to success!!
and agreeing with the great suggestions above re RAs and the IH courses, you'll be amazed at what a difference it can make.