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Post by portiabuzz on Mar 30, 2011 13:18:32 GMT 1
hmmm intriguing!
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Post by HolsBols on Mar 31, 2011 13:12:47 GMT 1
No im ignoring and avoiding said person.
You know who it is PB... the one where u tell me off for making my dislike for him so obvious lol
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Post by jamesb on Mar 31, 2011 18:55:07 GMT 1
Life's too short, Ms S. Really, it is!
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Post by aero on Mar 31, 2011 22:29:52 GMT 1
Too short for what Jaymez? certainly not too short to avoid being angry with someone in my humble opinion.... I would say that's a smart move.
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Post by jamesb on Apr 1, 2011 0:24:31 GMT 1
I would agree, on the proviso that one is angry, gets it over with, and then moves on. If one has to avoid/ignore/make a special effort re any particular person, I would say that that person is in control of the situation, rather than oneself.
It comes down to choice; are you prepared to live feeling cross with someone, but do nothing about it? Or is it better to get the thing done and dusted and devote energy to more pleasurable pursuits?
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Post by HolsBols on Apr 1, 2011 9:50:30 GMT 1
With all due respect james, you've no idea what the situation is regarding said person and what im doing about it so cannot judge.
Im very happy with the way i am living my life, and it is certainly not being controlled by my dislike of that person!
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Post by aero on Apr 1, 2011 11:43:11 GMT 1
Some folk prefer to face it and some to walk away Jaymez............just because you might square up doesn't mean that everyone should now does it. Personally I have an incredible temper..........it is very slow to kick in and it takes a lot to make me mad, but if I do flip I'm dangerous to others and because of this I can honestly say that I haven't lost my temper since I was 14. Yes I get cross and yes I tell folk exactly what I think but if they don't get the message and persist then I have no option but to walk away before I get to the stage where I'm going to lose my temper because I know full well that I could do something that I may regret................... so I just don't go there.... a much more sensible option for me. My sister was the recipient of my last flip at 14 and from what happened to her I made the decision never to put myself in that predicament again..... It would probably be well to remember that everyone is different and everyone has their own way of dealing with stuff because it aint always as easy as you think. Ever heard of the christian ethic of turn the other cheek...... or even it takes a stronger man to walk away!!!!!
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Post by portiabuzz on Apr 1, 2011 13:11:42 GMT 1
ah-ha !! x
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Post by gwenoakes on Jul 2, 2011 16:33:18 GMT 1
Well I have resurrrected (sp) this thread, not for the contents, but because I felt it was very lonely all on its own.
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Post by ☺Smithy☺ on Jul 2, 2011 20:51:04 GMT 1
LOL Gwen........
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Post by portiabuzz on Jul 4, 2011 15:32:28 GMT 1
gone rather quite down here...wheres the fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by aero on Jul 4, 2011 20:05:06 GMT 1
dunno
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Post by jamesb on Jul 4, 2011 20:23:24 GMT 1
Should this thread not have been allowed to wither on the vine?
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Post by gwenoakes on Jul 5, 2011 8:51:20 GMT 1
Obviously not, cause you added something to it James. LOL
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Post by portiabuzz on Jul 5, 2011 22:42:07 GMT 1
oooohhhhhhhh!!!!
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