Post by debsjenkins on Dec 10, 2010 14:59:49 GMT 1
Hi Everyone
I just joined after being recommended to by Suze St Maur. I'll give a bit of background and then tell you my problem, I hope that's the best way of proceeding. Thanks in advance for any help, tips and advice!
I am 40 and started riding this year (had some lessons in my late teens). I bought a horse when I was feeling confident and have had a few falls on him, have lost my confidence a bit and have gone back to basics for a while. Added to that my trainer has been sacked, and they haven't found a new one yet, so I am solo for now. Also, I live in Spain and they do things a bit differently over here, so bear with me with my explanations and questions. My horse is stabled with the local stables.
So, I have a smallish (15.2 hands) silla frances castrated horse, that is trained for jumping and is 10 years old. After a couple of falls (horsey getting too excited in canter and me not being experienced nor confident enough to manage him - he is enthusiastic and strong) I have taken to doing some lunge work with him each day before riding. Previously my trainer lunged him and then I rode him. As my trainer got sacked I now do the lunging too. All was going well for a couple of weeks, but now horsey is messing about with me (Suze thinks he's taking the piss and I agree), only during work on the lunge rope - everything else is wonderful and he's being a really good boy.
When he's on the lunge he's ok, listens and keeps his gait going quite well (sometimes he needs a bit of encouragement) - however, when we come down a gear he will stop and turn and face me, not stroppy, just firmly stopped. Then he plays with me and won't get started again! I'm sure I'm doing something wrong, but can't work out what.
I try to come back along side him, but he plants his front leg and moves his back ones around and follows me. I've been doing some relaxed work with him on the halter to make him a bit more gentlemanly and not rush when he's being lead - and he's doing that wonderfully. He even stops and stays whilst I walk round him and can walk away from him without him moving a foot till I tell him to (I learnt this from Kelly's videos on horsehero.co.uk). So, generally great, just he's learned this new trick on the lunge.
Yesterday the owner of the stables saw me NOT managing to get horsey to lunge, so he said he'd show me how, and did - he got him going, but it was really stressful, he really pushed horsey using the long whip thingy (what's that called? - we call it an elastico in Spain) - horsey was jumping, bucking, rearing, turning - all the calm I'd got into him over the last 2 weeks was gone in a second!
I know horsey was messing about with me - but I really want to do things the nice calm way, not the Spanish big balls, loud shouts, scare the s**t out of the horse way!
When he calmed down I rode him, but could feel he was tense (which made me tense) and he was swiveling his head watching the owner who was over at the boxes and he was not paying so much attention to me
I think I need to get a better balance of firmness (without stressing him or me) and calmness - can't ride today it's pouring down, but could do with some tips for tomorrow!
Sorry this is a long post, thanks in advance for reading and any ideas you may have!
Have a lovely weekend
Debs
I just joined after being recommended to by Suze St Maur. I'll give a bit of background and then tell you my problem, I hope that's the best way of proceeding. Thanks in advance for any help, tips and advice!
I am 40 and started riding this year (had some lessons in my late teens). I bought a horse when I was feeling confident and have had a few falls on him, have lost my confidence a bit and have gone back to basics for a while. Added to that my trainer has been sacked, and they haven't found a new one yet, so I am solo for now. Also, I live in Spain and they do things a bit differently over here, so bear with me with my explanations and questions. My horse is stabled with the local stables.
So, I have a smallish (15.2 hands) silla frances castrated horse, that is trained for jumping and is 10 years old. After a couple of falls (horsey getting too excited in canter and me not being experienced nor confident enough to manage him - he is enthusiastic and strong) I have taken to doing some lunge work with him each day before riding. Previously my trainer lunged him and then I rode him. As my trainer got sacked I now do the lunging too. All was going well for a couple of weeks, but now horsey is messing about with me (Suze thinks he's taking the piss and I agree), only during work on the lunge rope - everything else is wonderful and he's being a really good boy.
When he's on the lunge he's ok, listens and keeps his gait going quite well (sometimes he needs a bit of encouragement) - however, when we come down a gear he will stop and turn and face me, not stroppy, just firmly stopped. Then he plays with me and won't get started again! I'm sure I'm doing something wrong, but can't work out what.
I try to come back along side him, but he plants his front leg and moves his back ones around and follows me. I've been doing some relaxed work with him on the halter to make him a bit more gentlemanly and not rush when he's being lead - and he's doing that wonderfully. He even stops and stays whilst I walk round him and can walk away from him without him moving a foot till I tell him to (I learnt this from Kelly's videos on horsehero.co.uk). So, generally great, just he's learned this new trick on the lunge.
Yesterday the owner of the stables saw me NOT managing to get horsey to lunge, so he said he'd show me how, and did - he got him going, but it was really stressful, he really pushed horsey using the long whip thingy (what's that called? - we call it an elastico in Spain) - horsey was jumping, bucking, rearing, turning - all the calm I'd got into him over the last 2 weeks was gone in a second!
I know horsey was messing about with me - but I really want to do things the nice calm way, not the Spanish big balls, loud shouts, scare the s**t out of the horse way!
When he calmed down I rode him, but could feel he was tense (which made me tense) and he was swiveling his head watching the owner who was over at the boxes and he was not paying so much attention to me
I think I need to get a better balance of firmness (without stressing him or me) and calmness - can't ride today it's pouring down, but could do with some tips for tomorrow!
Sorry this is a long post, thanks in advance for reading and any ideas you may have!
Have a lovely weekend
Debs