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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2014 16:48:25 GMT 1
I did a favour for a few people, called all the contacts I had and called in a few favours and asked a friend to almost put her job on the line for me and break a few rules, which she did gladly ( she stil has her job no comeback on her for that) and then I contact the people concerned..........THEY then start a 'supporters group' on a certain social site from which I am excluded and then I get three emails telling me ' you are an interfering cow, who only does things to make yourself feel important, or look important, people really do not like you for 'helping' as you know very little about whats gone on and you have no vested interest in any of the animals so sod off'. I undertook to try and find out information to ease a few peoples minds, I do not help to try and be important I offer help because I might be able to actually find things out..........I was a solicitors 'trace agent' for bloody long enough to know where to start digging around for stuff..........well thats it have been asked by one of the parties to help again and I told them no been stung once and won't be taken for a ride again
rant over and normal service will be resumed
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Post by gwenoakes on Feb 21, 2014 19:09:08 GMT 1
Hope you feel better after your rant. You know what they say, you cant please all of the people all of the time.........I gave up trying years ago. LOL
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Post by Mellymoo on Feb 21, 2014 21:20:27 GMT 1
How mean of them! I am certainly wary of who I help now, just because you get no thanks for it. I am mad on your behalf!!
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Post by julz on Feb 21, 2014 23:22:35 GMT 1
Know how you feel.... I was kinda told the same but people I thought were friends on a certain "social networking site" turns out they only had me as friends so they could see what I was up to and bitch about me behind my back..... tell them to sod off!
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Post by mollichop on Feb 22, 2014 10:13:46 GMT 1
Aaar Christine, sorry this has happened to you but they always the messenger! and then the piano player! I used to help wherever I could, particularly with staff who had fallen some hard times.......... too bliddy soft, suddenly I'm the one getting b**ch slapped and I'm the baddie, cow played a blinder, I don't get involved anymore.................
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2014 11:30:57 GMT 1
well have told them that I will not be helping them any further and that they can find out their own info now, not that they will as the whole thing will be in court on June 2nd..........its a cruelty case involving a lot of horses and lot of people ..........only one I'm intersted in finding now and thats a little colt I was partly responsible for in the fact I vouched for the b**tch who is at the bottom of all this, she really had me and a lot of other people fooled into believing she was caring and knowledgable.......all I want to find is that little man safe and sound and possibly get him back to his breeder who is desperate for newws of him. It may be they sold him on, it might be he's one of those removed from the culprit, or he might be one of those dead we don't know.........if he's with the RSPCA then he's safe and cared for if he's dead then he's past his suffering and misery but one thing for certain I'll be sitting in court and hoping and praying the witch and her husband get a very long jail term!
One more little footnote to all of this is that when the story found its way into the papers and people started picking up on it then all hell broke loose on Facebook and other sites, quite justifiably people who knew her were appalled at the story of what had happened, and they reacted as people do they vented their feelings quite forcefully........as anyone would do......then the culprit had the nerve and cheek to call the police to ask them to contact people she had phone numbers for to tell them to back off as 'she and her family were feeling threatened and vulnerable' what did she expect, people to have some sympathy for her, told the police officer who called here that she could pick up the phone and complain those poor animals in her 'care' didn't have that chance.he agreed with me......what really annoys me though is up to three years ago this woman was my friend, and then she cut all contact with me I'm not the only one who she did that too just one on a long list of people, I vouched for her over the sale of the colt, if she had wanted to she could have knocked on my door or picked up the phone and asked me for help and it would have ben given, not jsut off me but off a whole load of folks who would have helped her and not asked questions but she didn't and thats something I cannot and will not forgive her for
Right thats the end ogf the saga!
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Post by mollichop on Feb 25, 2014 9:28:00 GMT 1
Sorry should have they shoot 'bliddy autocorrect'!!!
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Post by portiabuzz on Feb 25, 2014 11:41:47 GMT 1
Aaar Christine, sorry this has happened to you but they always the messenger! and then the piano player! I used to help wherever I could, particularly with staff who had fallen some hard times.......... too bliddy soft, suddenly I'm the one getting b**ch slapped and I'm the baddie, cow played a blinder, I don't get involved anymore................. yes i hear that!!!! xx
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Post by portiabuzz on Feb 25, 2014 11:43:33 GMT 1
christine, ive been there trying to help horses / people and have had the same thing happen to me. am very wary now
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Post by jackiedo on Mar 7, 2014 19:43:44 GMT 1
don't worry mate... step back from it all.
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Post by jen1 on Mar 8, 2014 11:42:42 GMT 1
I did a favour for a few people, called all the contacts I had and called in a few favours and asked a friend to almost put her job on the line for me and break a few rules, which she did gladly ( she stil has her job no comeback on her for that) and then I contact the people concerned..........THEY then start a 'supporters group' on a certain social site from which I am excluded and then I get three emails telling me ' you are an interfering cow, who only does things to make yourself feel important, or look important, people really do not like you for 'helping' as you know very little about whats gone on and you have no vested interest in any of the animals so sod off'. I undertook to try and find out information to ease a few peoples minds, I do not help to try and be important I offer help because I might be able to actually find things out..........I was a solicitors 'trace agent' for bloody long enough to know where to start digging around for stuff..........well thats it have been asked by one of the parties to help again and I told them no been stung once and won't be taken for a ride again rant over and normal service will be resumed Lesson learnt I guess! Do nowt for nodody either , 1 you expect owt in return " I do things because iwant to ,and I enjoyed it " or 2 you cant handle the out come good or bad !
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Post by Deleted on Mar 8, 2014 23:07:16 GMT 1
Jen the outcome I can handle, I already know the 'fate' of the one I was most concerned about the rest will be discovered on June 2nd when the witch and her horrible husband appear in court
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Post by portiabuzz on Mar 10, 2014 18:59:34 GMT 1
Sending how you doing xxx
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